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you write to me, your words...
This letter is from Thom, who wrote to me on December 4, 1998.
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Dear Solaz.....
Wow, wow, wow.....Love your page, your life story, you being a redhead!!!
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yeah, heheheh, it is pretty amazin' ain't it.
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See ever since I was five years old, and was left in the care of two
redhead baby sitters...(Not twins, but sisters)...and they were SOOOOO
kind to me...and they were SOOOOOOOOO beautiful....
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well of course they were kind; didn't you know that G-d makes His angels from
redheads!?!
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It was like a massive hit of red rock cocaine *NOT that I use cocaine* But
the effect was the same....
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hmmmm, i fell in love once, about two years ago, and he said that loving me
was like drinking from a firehose. is that what you mean?
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Anyway, got married....to a non-redhead...it did not work out...
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i am so sorry to hear that. (even if she was a non-redhead). i have the highest
esteem and respect for marriage. to me, it is sacred. i am deeply scarred by
the end of mine... but G-d has done such work in me.
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but on the net I have found the perfect redheaded, kind, sweet, lady....
Maybe someday we will meet.... I am going to send her a copy of your
URL...I want her to see your page....WOW...I am knocked out!!
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thank you so much for your kind words. i am flattered that you find my site of
value. i hope that as you return you will find more and more that adds grace
and beauty to your life. that old sixties saw: "love is all you need" became such
an overused and abused cliche, but the truth is, these are hard, hard times,
and we all desperately need one another as never before. if we all loved as
Christ calls us to love one another, all the problems we face every day, would
be effaced; diminished; reduced; then, disappeared. for true love does battle. it
does not give up and run out or away when the beloved is unkind, or ignoble.
but i didn't learn this until recently.
but this i know, if both are willing to be
faithful to the commitment of love in a marriage, then they can conquer
anything, for they will have the truest power: the bond of the Triune G-d will
overflow blessing on them.
remember this if nothing else: true love does battle!
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(I do voice overs....Have a national Commercial running right now...
1 800 US SEARCH.....Rotten commercail...but I am the voice of God at the
end....*s*
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wow, how exciting. you must have a very rich and resonate voice. i would love
to hear it. is this a tv commercial (and i have to watch hours of tv to catch it) or
do i dial 1 800... etc. and then i can hear it?
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Me.....*This is a photo from a movie set...I am NOT this mean
looking...*I am NOT an actor..* NEVER..Actors suffer too much!
http://xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.html
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....;-) great shot. you are very attractive. and very tall. wow. i hope your
girlfriend is tall... but i suppose you could just bring along a little ladder for her.
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My redhead....EmberFlame aka Jacqueline
http://www.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx/
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she is quite lovely. i am happy for you. may i offer one tiny comment to you
both?
the "net" is a great place. a great place to meet people, chat, find things, learn
things, etc. but it is only a psuedo experience. it is not real. when you chat or
email, even instant messages, on the short, that is ok. if, however, most of
your time, and/or relationship takes place on the net, then it is only a pseudo
relationship. it is not real. the bonds are weak and anemic. you can't download
quality of life, or respect for others. you can't download the thousands of
nonverbal nuances we all use everyday to interpret the conversations we have
with others. i can't send you my tears in an email. neither could you send me
the hug i so desperately needed the day after my car crashed, at night, into a
tractor-trailer truck parked across the highway without lights or reflectors. the
longer you maintain a psuedo relationship, the more surreal it becomes. you
both conjure a dream-like image of the other; and when you are off the net, you
feel lonely and incomplete. if you value your new relationship, turn off the
computer, get on a plane and meet her in a public place. spend time together.
enjoy those thousands of non-verbal nuances that are part and parcel of
everyone of us when we communicate to others. a "net-exclusive" relationship
will only make you less real, less communicative, and fade the image of G-d on
your life. remember, in the beginning, G-d created male and female. He did not
create email. we need each other as never before. these are truly the times that
try the tenor and virtue of all humankind. i spend less and less time online,
because G-d has called me to serve my neighbor, face2face; not ignore her/him
so i could catch up on email, or finish a new section for my website.
dear friend and brother, i adjur you, do not fall victim to this god-in-a-box-on-the-
desk. no matter how wonderful the words, email is not the same as my smile,
or my laughter, or the way i can cross my eyes or flutter my eyelashes.
sorry, i guess i was waxing that elephant again! i have to watch out for that
thing... it just sneeeks in here when i'm least expectin' it, and before you know
it, i've started polishin' its belly again!
again, thanks for your kind words. i hope you return often and find more neat-o
keen-o stuff....;-)
solaz, queenofeverything!
--yss
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